Men are from MARS........

Last week saya ada terbaca pasal isu SUAMI TIDUR DI SOFA? best juga article tuh and its relating to our marriage. Hows our husband react? and how about us?...

Honestly speaking, I hate Azuar sleep on sofa after watching late football match on TV. Serious I hate that. Oh, the article said, lelaki memang tak kisah mana-mana tempat dia tidur, asalkan lena tanpa sebarang gangguan sampai ke pagi. But from our (wife) point of view, suami tak respect kita. Means, tak hormat kita. Tidur bersama adalah satu penghormatan for the wives. Yes! that is so so true. We need his hugs and kisses.

Dulu mula-mula kahwin, memang selalu saying good night before sleep. Tapi sekarang, naik katil, borak sekejap, then sorang senyap, sedar-sedar ada bunyi dengkur...hahahahah dah tidur pun kot laki i...Baru nak cakap I dok mabuk nak something, nak itu nak ini.."Abang dengar tak ni? Dengar......" Kroh kroh kroh...

Eh, that is so true..Lelaki tak kisah kan. Mana-mana tidur asal boleh. But for me, he should respect me, tidur sama, we need hugs lah kan after being a loyal housewife at home and a good employee at office. Apa yang saya buat sekarang, terjaga dari tidur, tengok dia tak ada sebelah, jenguk bawah...there he is...Terlentang atas sofa, tv dok menonton dia.."Bang, bangun bang, tidur atas"....

Lately saya suka baca self help book especially in relationship husband and wife. Siapa dah pernah baca buku dari DR. John Gray...Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus...Mesti ramai yang dah baca, saya je yang terlambat. Eh that book pun macam sama sebijik dengan me and Azuar. I enjoy marriage life. But sometimes tu ada lah gaduh sana sini. Women memang complicated and men are too simple. Saya tiap kali baca part best, mesti cerita balik and suruh Azuar baca that part.

Lelaki memang tak suka arahan yang kompleks. Tapi perempuan memang complicated in the ways she talk. Itu sebenarnya curahan perasaan. For instance, "Eh sampah ni dah bertimbun, berbau-bau, lalat pun dah datang, bencinya tengok. Abang, boleh tolong buang letak kat luar? Nanti lori sampah datang. Cepat lah bang" Complicated kan... Azuar sure pending and blur bila I cakap macam tu... Sebenarnya patut straight to the point, "Boleh Abang tolong buang sampah?". Terus gegas Azuar buang sampah. Baru tangkap arahan gamaknya.

We are too different kan. Since we are from different world. Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.